Hello dear friend,
Greetings to you in Jesus name.
Today I want to share few things on relations and how to get out of the wrong relationship, if you are in one?
We will fall in relationship of any kind with anyone in no time. It can start with just a smile, just shaking of the hand, meeting couple of time and even by helping or receiving a help…..
Being friends is OK, but you should be careful especially with the person of opposite sex. Because that friendship might lead to some unnecessary issue if you don’t guard yourself.
It’s good to have friends but it’s very good to keep those friends within boundaries. I’m not sarcastic, no one should take the place in your heart like your husband/wife does. No one should take God’s place in every area of your life.
It’s easy to get into a relationship but it’s not that easy to be out of the same relationship, its almost impossible if God doesn’t help you through.
You feel more lonely when you are in a wrong relationship than you are single.
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If you think you are in a wrong relationship and want to get out of it. I believe this post will help you if you read it and apply things that I’m about to share.
3 Things that help you from wrong relationship:
- Disconnect completely:
You don’t commit to a relationship because someone had told you to, but you choose it for yourself, now, you again must chose to come out of it – Willingly!
You cannot come out of the relationship if you are connected to that person.
Sometimes you feel that person is genuine, sometimes caring and sometimes loving…… when you see all these in the same person whom you think is wrong for you, you cannot come out of it! Therefore ‘Be merciless’.
You might feel emotional and sometimes might also be weak in flesh and feel like connecting to that person again, this can be dangerous and this will not help you out of it but in no time, it might become a stronghold.
Block that person in every way that he/she might not reach you at all. Disconnect completely!!
- Repent for it:
After having decided to disconnect from that person, take time to repent to God for that wrong relationship and everything you have spoken, thought and did knowingly or unknowingly.
Don’t just be sorry, but determine not to repeat the same mistake.
The word repent is not just to be sorry for what you have done but it means ‘to turn around’, turn from the things that you have been liking to the things that God likes.
Ask God to forgive you, He is loving and just God, He will indeed forgive you and cleanse you, and make you a new person in Jesus Christ.
- Change your mind:
Once you have repented with all your heart, God is serious with that repentance and has forgiven you completely. He will treat you as if nothing has happened.
Now, it’s your turn to treat yourself the way God – your Creator treats you, and now you see your life the way God sees you..
If you can change the way you think, you will change the way you live.
God want you to start a new life with Him. There is hope, it’s not over.
May God give you grace and help you out of the wrong relationship you are in and may the hand of God lead you and guide you to His perfect will in Jesus Christ.
You went through this and now you are out, Thank God. I think God wants you to help people who are still in wrong relationships. Your life and your testimony can be an inspiration to someone.
God bless you,
In His Service,
Jeevan & Leena
